Just a Day, Just an Ordinary Day

Wednesday, June 30, 2004

a great friend told me today she wasn't ready for change in her life. I guess thats the thing about change, it hits you when you're not ready, it hits when you least want it to....it hits and it hits hard.

Change hits hard because its new, its scary, its intimidating, it makes you realize all of the good that you have and that you will lose, it makes you sad, or mad, or just confused...but after a while what was a change becomes normal. The scary change has become life, everyday life.

The effects of the change are everlasting, good and bad...they make you stronger, they make you more appreciative of all the good in your life, they keep you on your toes, keep you ready, you just can't let them keep you from being happy for too long...

Change sucks and is hard.... but once you get past the tears, the anger, the fear.....change becomes everyday life, and everyday life is good :-)

3 Comments:

  • change is scary, and hard, and something that i hate a lot of the time. but it does make you stronger, and braver, and better in the end. even if it hits you when you aren't ready.

    but one good thing about change is...

    at the end of the day i know no matter what, you will be there for me and i will be there for you.

    and that my friend, will never change. :-)

    By Blogger Katie, At 10:40 PM  

  • If you really think about it... is anyone ever ready for change?
    Can you ever be prepared so that it isn't scary, exciting, sad, and maddening?
    "The only permanent thing in life is change"... so just take it as it comes.
    Not everyone has that kind of character- but you do, Paige.
    And you have us- all of your friends- to help you out when times get rough.

    By Blogger loo, At 2:19 PM  

  • i know that this may not help, but i hate change. it sux hard core. it creeps up into your comfortable places and takes away the things that make you feel like you. i hate change- so i can comiserate with you. feel free to comlplain to me anytime
    love ya

    By Blogger Megan M., At 9:56 AM  

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